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Joyce Heck

May 7, 1932 — February 14, 2020

Joyce Heck

Mrs. Joyce Heck passed away peacefully on Friday February 14, 2020, surrounded by loving family in Lansing, NY.  Born May 7, 1932, in Endicott, NY, she was the daughter of the late Robert T. and Blanche Carman.  She attended St. Ambrose Parochial School through the eighth grade, and then went on to graduate from Union-Endicott High School in 1950.  She enjoyed her 15 years working at IBM Endicott, at the same time as her father.  She was an avid bowler at the IBM Country Club, as well as traveling with her friends various times to the Caribbean.

In the early 1960’s, Joyce met the love of her life, David Heck, Sr. They were married November 13, 1965, and together they had two sons, David Jr. and Robert.  Raising her two boys was her life’s most precious gift and love. She had a real knack with children and was loved by her numerous nieces and nephews. All through her life, she would light up at the sight of a child.  She became very active and involved in helping others who were struggling with addiction problems, and always lent an ear to those who needed helpful advice.  In 1962, at the suggestion of her father, she purchased a lot on Cayuga Lake next to her parents’ place, which eventually turned into the Heck family summer cottage. In 2003, the cottage was converted to her and Dave Sr.’s permanent home.  She loved the lake, and entertaining those who visited. Her sense of humor and smile were infectious.

In addition to her parents, Joyce was preceded in death by her sister Mary (Ambrose) Cook, brother Robert T. Carman, Jr., DDS, and sister-in-law Lynn (Stoltz) Carman.  She is survived by her loving husband David Heck, Sr., of Lansing, son David Heck, Jr., DDS and daughter-in-law Dr. Michelle Heck of Ithaca, NY, son Robert Heck, DDS of Charlotte, NC; brother Thomas R. Carman and wife Barbara of Vestal, NY; sister-in-law Bernie Carman of Naples, Florida; sister-in-law Joyce (Heck) DeWalt of Springfield, OH; grandchildren Domenica, Joey and Ray; and numerous nieces, nephews, and great nieces and nephews.

The family will receive family and friends from 6:00 to 8:00 p.m. on Monday, February 17, 2020, at Lansing Funeral Home, Lansing, NY.  A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at All Saints Catholic Church, Lansing, NY, on Tuesday, February 18, 2020, at 10:30 a.m. with a luncheon immediately to follow at the church.

In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made in Joyce’s name to All Saints Catholic Church, Lansing, NY, HospiCare of Tompkins County, Alzheimer’s Foundation or Meals On Wheels. Let your family, your friends and those you touch in your daily life, know just how special they are.  There is no greater gift.

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Monday, February 17, 2020

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Mass of Christian Burial

Tuesday, February 18, 2020

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