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Alfred DiGiacomo

Alfred (Alfonso) DiGiacomo, 98, passed away on June 27, 2021. He was born and raised in Huntington Station, New York. As the oldest of five, he served as the translator between his immigrant parents and the Huntington School District. He graduated from Huntington High School in 1941. Al worked at Sarrow’s Grocery Store until he enlisted in the U.S. Army in November 1942. He was assigned to overseas duty in October 1943. Sergeant DiGiacomo joined the 926 Signal Battalion as a switchboard operator providing air support for ground services to the 9th Tactical Air Command. He received a medal for his service in the European African and Middle East Theater with five battle stars for his participation in the Battle of Normandy and the Battle of the Bulge.

Al was honorably discharged in November 1945 and returned to Huntington Station.  His sister Carmella “Millie” introduced him to her coworker and friend, Mary O’Brien. After a year-long courtship they married. Al was active as a leader in the Cub Scouts for eight years and the Boy Scouts for two years. He was a member of the Knights of Columbus in Huntington and Ithaca.

A self-educated architect, Al studied drafting under the G.I. Bill and, after a 12-year apprenticeship, received his architectural license. Later in life, he continued his studies and received a Bachelor of Professional Studies degree from Empire State College. He designed many buildings on Long Island, including Islip High School, South Oaks Hospital, Huntington Elementary School, Suffolk County Police Precincts, and the Long Island Arena. The design for Islip High School was selected for exhibit at the National School Boards Convention.

As County Architect for Suffolk County, he was responsible for the design and construction of many buildings including two community college campuses and the master planning for the County Center in Yaphank which Newsday described as planning at its best. Al served on the board for The Long Island Chapter of the American Institute of Architects and was a founding member of the Long Island chapter of the Construction Specifications Institute.

Al and Mary moved to Ithaca in 1980 when he accepted the position of Senior Architect with Cornell University. There, he played a key role in campus building expansion. He was directly involved in the design of Snee Hall, Uris Hall reading room, Biotechnology Building, Townhouses, Akwe:kon House, many renovation projects including Willard Straight Hall terrace and dining hall and the addition of a third floor to Hasbrouck Apartments.

Upon retirement in 1993, he enjoyed traveling and spending time with his family and grandchildren. He wrote five books including “A Soldier’s Diary” and “American Bread”, highlighting his memories and aspects of his life. He took courses in computer use and painting. Every year Al presented his personal WWII experiences to Ithaca High School students during “A Soldier’s Story Day”. He also met with Ithaca College and Cornell students as part of a volunteer program called Project Care which promotes dialogue and understanding between generations. Al loved the annual intergenerational Harvest Moon Dance. He enjoyed attending events and trips organized by the Greater Ithaca Activities Center Senior Program.

Al was preceded in death by his beloved wife of 66 years Mary, sisters: Carmella Impellizeri, Marie (Joseph) Kelsey, in-laws: John O’Brien, Jean (Stanley) Ferner.

Al is survived by his six children and their spouses: Frank (Deborah Marinsky), Kathleen (the late Neil) Shanahan, Kenneth (Patricia), Robert, Thomas (Nancy), and Carol (Dale) Casler. His grandchildren Alana (Nick), Danielle (Charlie), Gavin (Catie). Brien (Angelis), Patrick (Carissa), Keara, Kyle (Maggie), Terence, Arielle (Zack), Julia (Spencer), Casey and Michael. Alfred was also blessed with six great-grandchildren: Maya, Jacob, Mia, Scarlett, Colin, and Daniel. His surviving siblings include Frank DiGiacomo (Fran) and Rita (the late Bob) Comeau and sister-in-law Dorothea (the late Dennis) Buckley and numerous nephews, nieces and cousins. He is also survived by his spirit artist and “partner in shenanigans” Lynn Capani-Czebiniak.

Al will be remembered for his fierce independence and love of music, photography, gadgets, books and storytelling.

Relatives and friends are welcome at Lansing Funeral Home in Lansing, NY on Tuesday, July 6, from 4:00 to 7:00 PM. A Funeral Mass will be celebrated by Fr. Joseph Marcoux on Wednesday, July 7, at 10:00 AM at St. Catherine of Siena Church, Ithaca. Visitation will be held at M.A. Connell Funeral Home in Huntington, NY on Thursday, July 8, from 2:00 to 4:00 PM and 7:00 to 9:00 PM. Burial with Military Honors in St. Patrick's Cemetery in Huntington, NY on Friday, July 9.

In lieu of flowers, the family suggests contributions to the Greater Ithaca Activities Center (GIAC), Senior Program, Attention: Zack Nelson, 301 W. Court St., Ithaca, NY 14850, checks can be made out to GIAC and mention "Senior Program" or Al's name on the memo line or The National Museum of the United States Army, 1775 Liberty Dr., Fort Belvoir, VA 22060, https://armyhistory.org.

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Al was an active and beloved member of the Greater Ithaca Activities Center for a number of years. He will be greatly missed on our trips and activities. Thanks to all that made a donation to the program in his honor.

Zack Aug 12 2021 12:00 AM

Mr. DiGiacomos personal oversight provided to the architects expanding and upgrading Cornells Willard Straight Dining was Visionary..and so appreciated by dining staff & students. As the Director of Dining Services I had worked with many architects but Never anyone whose energy, enthusiasm and talent was ever present!
Al was a joy to work with.
I extend my heartfelt condolences to Mr. DiGacomos family.

Peg Lacey Jul 6 2021 12:00 AM

I am so very sorry to learn of Mr. DiGiacomo's passing. What a lovely man! I wrote a column for many years in the Ithaca Journal, and was so honored to be able to meet and chat with Al. My husband and I spent a few hours with him at his home, and he shared stories, pictures and videos with us. What we knew for sure was his great and abiding love for his Mary. I believe the world is a better place for having Mr. DiGiacomo in it for 98 years. His was a life well-lived, and the contributions he made will always remain. I extend my most sincere condolences to Al's family during this very sad time.........although I have no doubt that Al and Mary are so very happy to be together again.

Gay Huddle Jul 2 2021 12:00 AM

I am extremely saddened by this news. I met Al when I first came to Cornell. We collaborated on so many projects together; Hasbrouck Apartments, Willard Straight Hall Dining & the lovely patio with the view High above Cayugas waters. He was brilliant, with such compassion & a warm heart. After retirement, we would reminisce about those days. We also shared his love for the Military, as my nephew remains a lifer. I so enjoyed his stories about how he and Mary met; their courtship & loving marriage. I will so miss his Facebook posts and great stories & jokes. I will keep those close to my heart. Sending strength and love to his family who he so cherished.

Bonnie Griffith Jul 1 2021 12:00 AM

Over the past 6 years, Al and I shared so many wonderful experiences, its nearly impossible to pick one: dancing, boating, trips, helicopter rides, just BEing at Myers Point, silly escapes, profound conversations I will love him for always and remember his sweet kindness to me, as well as all the fun we had together!
My heart is with his family during this time of mixed emotions.

Lynn Capani-Czebiniak Jul 1 2021 12:00 AM

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